“What Broke Your Heart Completely?” 30 Stories (16/30)

When my husband and I got pregnant for the first time. We were beyond excited, planning the future… Then went to our 10 week appointment/first ultrasound to be told there wasn’t a heartbeat. Repeat ultrasound two weeks later showed it had never developed a neural pole (what turns into the brain/spinal column) or cardiac activity of any sort, that it had basically just stopped developing for no reason they could tell, that a miscarriage was inevitable. My husband is a very stoic man, usually doesn’t show a ton of emotion. Him crying with me about broke my heart.

To end the comment on a better note, though: that was late October/early November last year. We got pregnant again fairly quickly and we’re 33 weeks with a healthy pregnancy so far.